Commonest misconceptions about human sexuality

Foreword:
I prefer the word "HETEROSEXUAL" to "STRAIGHT", because "STRAIGHT" is the contrary of "TWISTED", and I don't think that homosexuals are twisted at all! Thus I think that the term "STRAIGHT" is rather offensive. I also prefer the word "HOMOSEXUAL" and avoid as much as possible the words "GAY" and "LESBIAN", which I consider as offensive as "FAG" and "DYKE". It's because "GAY" originally means "joyous and lively; merry; happy; lighthearted" (WEBSTER'S DICTIONARY), and I don't think that the word "gay" must be a privilege of homosexuals only. "LESBIAN" is an inhabitant of the Greek island LESBOS, and of course, not everyone born in Lesbos is homosexual, therefore the word "LESBIAN" shouldn't be used to talk about homosexual women.

Below you'll find facts that refute the commonest misconceptions about human sexuality.

Here are some facts about human sexuality:
1- Some men like dressing like women, but aren't homosexual at all! Men that like dressing like women or women that like dressing like men are CROSS-DRESSERS, that's only a fetish. The fantasy of many men who CROSS-DRESS is to have sex with a woman while dressed like a woman!

2- Many men actually like to be penetrated anally, but they're not homosexual. Again, it's a fetish. There are men that like to be penetrated anally BY WOMEN with STRAP-ON DILDOS. NOTICE that a man isn't less heterosexual because he likes to be penetrated anally. He only does it with women, for he abhors men, like any other heterosexual man. There are some men that hire CALL GIRLS or ESCORT GIRLS to have this anal penetration.

3- Not all male homosexuals enjoy anal sex. Male homosexuality isn't a synonym of anal sex! There are many male homosexuals that don't like anal sex at all. Some male homosexuals only do oral sex (blowjob) or manual stimulation of the genitalia (handjob), or mutual masturbation.

4- Not all people that undergo Sex Reassignment Surgery are homosexual. Some of them are HERMAPHRODITE. Sex Reassignment Surgery can be a male-to-female surgery, with the removal of the penis and the construction of a vagina through VAGINOPLASTY, or the female-to-male surgery with the construction of a penis through METOIDIOPLASTY.

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The sexuality of men is aroused mainly by the SIGHT, whereas the sexuality of women is aroused more by TOUCH.

SIGHT is deceptive. When I see the beautiful robot girl below I can't deny that I think of sex. I only know that I will never be able to have sex with her because she has NO VAGINA, she has NO CLITORIS and NO VAGINAL SECRETIONS, and even if she had a vagina, it's impossible for a robot to have the natural taste and smell of a vagina.

Japanese Robot Girl Can Do Anything For You!


Kim Petras is a German trans woman, a person who underwent Sex Reassignment Surgery and now has a vagina. But once again, it's not possible to construct a vagina with the natural feminine secretions of a born vagina.

Kim Petras - Feel it Official Music Video


Bailey Jay is a transsexual, but since she had no Sex Reassignment Surgery she is called a SHEMALE or TRANNY.

Bailey Jay - 7 Questions


When I look at the robot, at Kim Petras, and at Bailey Jay I am turned on by their beauty, because unconsciously I imagine a natural born vagina. Actually I've already praised the beauty of transsexuals many times, even hit on them jokingly, if I had met the robot personally I probably would hit on her too! But I wouldn't have any relationship with them, for the reasons I pointed out. And, of course, I've always respected their feelings and told them straight away that I don't have that kind of relationship...

Masculinity is "those qualities conventionally supposed to make a man an excellent specimen of manhood, traditionally physical strength and courage", according to the BLOOMSBURY CONCISE ENGLISH DICTIONARY. Society created a series of behaviors that men must follow to be regarded as a man. One of the behaviors required is to be homophobic!

When I was young people said that I was gay because I said that the trans woman Roberta Close is beautiful. Because of that I started considering myself bisexual. I always thought that trans women are beautiful and sexy. I only stopped considering myself bisexual when I read more about human sexuality and understood that sexuality is clearly defined by the desire for the SEX ORGAN. And I crave born vaginas for the attributes above mentioned.

Surely what I really like are the missionary position, MUFF DIVING, and WOMAN ON TOP; I love the female skin and I like to feel it all the time. I'm not very fond of doggy style (when a woman turns her ass to me I feel like giving a Greek kiss instead!) because I can't touch the woman much in such position.

One of the strangest things about sexuality is that some men have homosexual relationships but they think that it's not. Some men think that only the passive partner in a homosexual relationship is homosexual! And some men strongly believe that it's not homosexual to give or receive oral sex from a man.

Anyway, sometimes a man has had a one-time relationship with a transsexual - who he first thought to be a woman - and this doesn't necessarily mean that such a man is homosexual. But another type of man are married for a long time and never had a homosexual relationship but ONLY because he himself is homophobic... and to make up for the homosexual relationship that he really wanted he tries to have anal sex with his regular wife and insists on it all the time...
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Hermaphroditism vs, Homophobia

The disinformation about human sexuality is enormous. Homophobia is a serious problem in our society caused by lack of elementary information about sexuality. Therefore before I speak about homophobia I will talk about some things of the human sexuality that everyone should know.

Human sexuality is physically defined by hormones, estrogen is the female hormone, whereas testosterone is the male hormone. Thus the hormone prevalent in women is estrogen, and the hormone prevalent in men is testosterone. There's a phenomenon in the sexuality of some individuals called HERMAPHRODITISM, when a person is born HERMAPHRODITE. Hermaphrodite is "a person who has both male and female sexual characteristics", according to the BLOOMSBURY CONCISE ENGLISH DICTIONARY.

If the person has both male and female sexual characteristics only the person can decide about his or her sexuality. A doctor can't decide whether a hermaphrodite shall have sex with men or women, nor can a priest decide it. It's up to the hermaphrodite to decide. But, sometimes doctors decide the sex of the hermaphrodite baby through corrective surgery.

The video below shows the case of Patrick.

"Patrick is a hermaphrodite. Patrick had a tiny penis and a single testicle. Internally he had an ovary and a Fallopian tube. Tests show that half of Patrick's male chromosomes were missing."

The doctor removed Patrick's single testicle WITHOUT the permission of the adoptive parents!

"The surgery took Patrick's natural ability to produce testosterone. For now Patrick is taking growth hormones. Later he will get testosterone to keep him looking male. He'll need to take it all his life."

Intersex Infant-Surgical Abuse


INTERSEX is a more formal word for HERMAPHRODITE.

A doctor is not supposed to decide about the sexuality of people, not even priests can do it. The very existence of hermaphroditism is enough evidence that there are things about sexuality that are beyond our understanding and it's up to each one of us to decide our sexuality, without pressures from society.
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Misogyny and Patriarchy

An important piece of information from the book MEN WHO HATE WOMEN AND THE WOMEN WHO LOVE THEM, by Dr. Susan Forward:
(Reproduction only for educational and informative purposes.)
'It has only been in recent years that studies have proved what many of us have known for a long time: that the majority of women need manual and/or oral stimulation to have orgasms.'

This is a fact of human sexuality, and many men don't want to touch their women to give them the love they need and deserve. All this is very important information. I am writing this in English because there are some delicate points that may be misinterpreted by some people. This is aimed at people who are more open to such delicate information and less prone to misjudge. The main public of this blog are Portuguese speakers, and the native Portuguese speakers who can read English probably are indeed more open-minded. That's why I'm writing in English.

The definition of clitoris, by the WEBSTERS DICTIONARY:
a small, sensitive erectile organ at the upper end of the external female genital organ: it corresponds to the penis of the male.

Many men only want sexual intercourse and don't wan't to touch their woman down there orally or manually.
Note: sexual intercourse involves penetration, in contrast with oral sex.

When a woman is not sexually aroused through appropriate foreplay the penetration may be painful to her. For men, I'd say: try to imagine you having to force your flaccid penis into a hard surface. You know that would hurt your penis. To penetrate you have to be sexually excited so that your penis become erect. Well the clitoris is also an erectile organ and it's hidden, that's why a woman needs to be stimulated there to be properly aroused. Otherwise it may be painful to her the same way it would be painful to you, man, to penetrate a hard surface without an erection.

Another very important excerpt from the book MEN WHO HATE WOMEN AND THE WOMEN WHO LOVE THEM, by Dr. Susan Forward:
(Reproduction only for educational and informative purposes.)
'It was a put-down to him if I wanted anything other than intercourse. That's all he'd do. If I asked him to touch me until I came, he'd leave the room. It was disgusting, he'd say. He made me feel dirty about my body.'

Unfortunately this is typical of a patriarchal society, a society in which only men are supposed to have pleasure.
Patriarchy is government by men, according to the WEBSTER'S DICTIONARY.

Patriarchy is in the fine arts. Compare the statue of David, by Michelangelo and the statue of Aphrodite, the Venus de Milo.

This excellent photo of the statue of Michelangelo is from the site Florence Inferno.

The photo of the statue of Aphrodite is from the site Michael Lahanas.

Michelangelo's David shows his penis as something very natural, but the statue of Aphrodite only shows her breast, as if the male genitalia were more artistic than the female genitalia. This is a clear sign of patriarchy. (Not to mention the fact that the nipple of Aphrodite is broken!)

According to the WEBSTER'S DICTIONARY, the clitoris corresponds to the penis of the male, so it wouldn't be an exaggeration to have a statue with a woman and her clitoris showing, just like the penis of Michelangelo's David showed. It would be EQUALITY.

Clitbreakers: Misogynists castrate Women

In English there are the offensive terms "ballbreaker" and "ballbuster"; both are used to denote a woman who is regarded as unpleasant and aggressive towards men. Literally "ballbreaker" or "ballbuster" is a woman who BREAKS the balls of men; a woman who castrates men with her attitudes.

You probably have already realized that "ballbreaker" and "ballbuster" are terms used by misogynists to insult women. They call a woman a "Ballbreaker" because when someone kicks a man's testicles (balls) the pain is unbearable; they mean that such a woman is so unbearable and painful as a kick in the balls. But, in fact, it is misogynistic men who have castrated women for centuries and still do castrate women nowadays. Such men BREAK the clitoris of women, they castrate them; therefore I call them CLITBREAKERS or CLITBUSTERS.
(Ball: a testicle. Clit: short for clitoris. Look these words up in the Dictionary.com.)

It's not a physical castration of the clitoris, but still is a castration by ignoring its existence. It is a castration by regarding the clitoris as something dirty and indecent. You may remember the quotation from the book MEN WHO HATE WOMEN AND THE WOMEN WHO LOVE THEM by Dr. Susan Forward:

(The reproduction is for educational and informative purposes only.)
'The mention of oral sex made him grimace. He'd say, "It looks nasty, it smells nasty, and it tastes nasty." Another time he said, "Your idea of a good time is for me to spend the night with my head between your legs."'

Definition of "nasty" by the WEBSTER'S DICTIONARY:
1. filthy; foul.
2. offensive in taste or smell; nauseating.

Compare with the definition on line by Wiktionary:
1. Dirty, filthy.
2. Contemptible, unpleasant.

Now Dictionary.com:
1. physically filthy; disgustingly unclean.
2. offensive to taste or smell; nauseating.

How many women had to hear men say that their vulva, vagina or clitoris is nasty? One tip to women, such men must think that the penis is cleaner than the vulva. Don't be surprised if you catch them sucking a penis sometime! (I don't mean to be crass, but what else could I say?)

Many women can't even recognize their clitoris, let alone their male partners! This happens because our society has been led by misogynists. The female genitalia have always been reprobated, along with the female expression of sexuality. In such a way that women are ashamed of touching their own body. Most women don't even know what is FEMALE EJACULATION.

Ejaculation is something NATURAL for both men and women. You man, imagine how you would feel if you had never ejaculated in your life. That's exactly how most women feel.

The sad reality is that most women have been pregnant, but only a few women have experienced orgasm. Misogynists have limited women to a role of procreators only; procreators deprived of sexuality, castrated by reprobation, the worst form of castration.

To finish the post, the definition of "reprobate" by the WEBSTER'S DICTIONARY, so you can see exactly what I mean:
1. to disapprove with detestation or marks of extreme dislike; to contemn strongly; to condemn.
2. to reject.
3. in theology, to reject and abandon as beyond saving; to foreordain (a person) to damnation: said of God.

As you can see, no exaggeration at all...

Natural sexuality vs, Misogyny and Homophobia

Homophobia is not normal. Misogyny is a disease, and perhaps homophobia is caused by misogyny, for a homosexual man has an effeminate behavior. A homophobe hates the effeminate behavior and a misogynist not always hates the body of the woman, but he hates her femininity. It's so much so that misogynists have relationship with women, who they hate.

The human sexuality is full of fascinating traits. We still haven't had uncovered all its secrets and mysteries. A person may be heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, or asexual. We're not sure if all these conditions exist in humans, but they exist in nature. And our cultures and religions don't want to accept that perhaps these conditions exist in human kind also.

Some men don't have full attraction to women, but get married WITH WOMEN, perhaps because of the social status of a society that considers good marriage a sign of success. Those men that really don't like the bodies of the women aren't necessarily homosexual, perhaps they're only ASEXUAL. Maybe they just have erections because they're excited with the social status.

For the men I say: don't marry just for status sake, don't marry to fulfill the views of family and society, only marry a woman if you love her and desire her, marry her if she gives you goose bumps.

The following extract is from the book MEN WHO HATE WOMEN AND THE WOMEN WHO LOVE THEM by Dr. Susan Forward:

(The reproduction is for educational and informative purposes only.)
'The mention of oral sex made him grimace. He'd say, "It looks nasty, it smells nasty, and it tastes nasty." Another time he said, "Your idea of a good time is for me to spend the night with my head between your legs."'

This man doesn't like women. Or at least he doesn't like THAT particular woman. For a man the texture of the skin of a woman is delicious, so the taste of a woman is inebriating, better than any fruit ever tasted. I'm not exaggerating at all! A clear example to convince the women:
Some men give GREEK KISS in their women. A man does that for HIS pleasure, because he CAN'T resist the delicious inebriation of a woman and he becomes oblivious to everything else, it's the power of the SCENT OF A WOMAN, what the natural smell of a woman does to a man.

I know these things because I'M A MAN. In fact, I almost gave a Greek kiss in a woman... I had to hold myself from doing it, I had to strive to get a grip on myself, I only didn't do it because that could be really very DANGEROUS to my health, because the woman was a prostitute and such sexual act would be very unpredictable and dangerous because I didn't know the woman...

I'm sharing these personal experiences so that women may understand what female sexuality really does to a man who LIKES women. If you're a man and doesn't feel like that perhaps you're homosexual or asexual. Remember. It's not wrong to be homosexual. It's only natural.
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